Talk to someone now. Call our National Helpline 7 days a week, 8am-midnight (AEST/AEDT) on 1800 33 4673. You can also chat online or email

Talk to someone now. Call our National Helpline 7 days a week, 8am-midnight (AEST/AEDT) on 1800 33 4673. You can also chat online or email

Body confidence across the lifespan

  • Body confidence is low overall and declines with age. Only 9% of Baby Boomers and 4% of Pre-Baby Boomers reported feeling very confident about their bodies, compared to 20% amongst Gen Z and Gen Y.
  • Men are twice as likely than women to say they feel very confident in their bodies, while women were twice as likely to describe themselves as very unconfident.
  • Body anxiety starts early, with around two in five Australians saying they became conscious of their bodies before age 14.
  • Two in five women said they had received a remark about their appearance that stayed with them for life, compared with around one in five men.

Based on a new survey of 1,059 Australians by Butterfly Foundation, which dives into how body confidence can change with age and how factors influencing body image have changed over time. 

“There’s no surprise in the fact that a lot of women reach my age and they’ve deeply embedded those [appearance ideal] beliefs.” – Clare Loewenthal, Butterfly Lived Experience Pathfinder 

Body image influences

Body image refers to the thoughts, feelings, attitudes and beliefs we hold about our bodies and how we look. Body image starts developing in early childhood, and the relationship you have with your body and appearance – which will evolve over the course of your lifetime – is one of the most significant, long-lasting and complex relationships you will ever have.

1 in 3 people say they have received negative feedback about their body, that has stayed with them throughout their life.

There are many different factors that can influence the way we feel about our bodies – from the culture we live in, to our parents, peers, and what we see on social media, and other media.

Chatting appearance pressures

There’s a lot we can learn from different generations, when it comes to appearance pressures and how we can create safer online spaces that support our body image.

Young people could ask older generations:

  • What was the ‘ideal body’ when you were growing up? Where did it come from, and how did you feel about it?
  • Did you ever feel pressure to look a certain way, or compare yourself to another person’s body?

Older people could ask young generations:

  • Where do you find spaces online that make you feel good about yourself and your body?
  • What’s the hardest part about daily appearance pressures, that you think other people my age may not understand?

Download our guide

Our resource that explores how society, culture and media shape our body image and the way we see ourselves, and how we can learn from different generations to better protect our body image and build safer, kinder, online communities.

DOWNLOAD OUR GUIDE

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Getting support

If you’re worried that yourself or a loved one may be struggling with an eating disorder or body image concerns, it’s important to seek help right away. Contact the Butterfly National Helpline for confidential and free support, by calling 1800 ED HOPE (1800 33 4673) or visit www.butterfly.org.au to chat online or email, 7 days a week, 8am-midnight AEDT/AEST.  

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